Share what you love, and the money will follow.
Work and
Fun can happen together.
A while back I wrote a Blog Post “Do what you love and the money will
Follow”, there were several ideas in this post:
It’s okay to make mistakes
It’s good to have fun even when you are working (work and fun are not
mutually exclusive)
Taking care of yourself is necessary, not selfish
Everyone’s path is not the same (Some people may have similar goals and
different ways to get there. Other people may have different goals all
together, and this is not for us to judge.)
I had fun
with “It’s ok to make mistakes” in that Blog, so let’s talk about “Work and fun
can happen together”;
Somehow, we
are taught when we are kids that work is a bad word. People make a goal to make
enough money, so they no longer have to work. But then what? And for heaven’s
sake, for most of us how long does that take? How many stories do we hear about
unhappy wealthy people? Money itself is not fulfilling. I believe; money can
mean freedom, but freedom from what? What if we design a life where making
money and living a fun and fulfilling life go hand in hand?
This might
require a shift in perspective, not a big one mind you, just a small shift. Then
suddenly life will be much brighter every day when you wake up. What if you are
a waitress and you have a love of art? Every day you are pushed to the waitress
job to pay the bills, everyday you long to be more involved in art. What if as
a waitress you go in everyday and bubble over with your amazing skills and
apply your love for art in your job? What would that look like? What are you
good at? Do you enjoy helping people feel good about themselves? Can you give
more compliments? Work with your teammates energetically and create a positive
work atmosphere that helps everyone do a better job, and in the end benefits
the restaurant and your tips? Can you notice people that might have the same
interest as you? Find a part time job in an art gallery, take a class in
painting? Go to a new exhibit and meet people that share your passion? Is it possible
to work in a restaurant with an owner that shares your passion and lets you
participate in new and exciting décor? Is it possible to add decorations for
the seasons? Create fun specials or challenges? How can you take your job and
make it fun? I know you have been in restaurants where the waitress/waiter was
“doing his job” and I know you have been in restaurants where your server was
engaged and creating an experience for you. If you do not want to be a server
all your life you must create a vision of the next step and work toward it.
However, I believe we do not get to the next step without honing our gifts in
our present situation.
What does
this mean? I believe opportunities come along for us often. I also believe if
we are not working on who we need to be, then the opportunities become
problems, create fear and many are passed by because they are misunderstood.
What do I mean by this? One example is through the years I have had many
difficult horses in training. What I learned from each horse depended on my state of mind at the time. Sometimes it
was the owner, not the horse, that taught me the lessons! However, as I look
back, I could never be doing what I do now without the difficult horses. Do I
wish I had paid more attention to a couple of them? Yes! But thankfully I
listened to enough of them that I can ride the horses that I have now. And the
best part is, that I have had two of the most difficult, shut down horses of my
career this past year and not only am I able to build a connection with and train
them, but I am also having fun doing it! Instead of looking at it like “why
me?” I am thankful for the opportunity to learn more, be creative and give
these horses a chance in a human world. Maybe the horses of the past did not
take me to the big show ring, maybe they did not even make me big money,
however, applying myself and my special creative talents changed their lives,
as they did mine. From those lessons I am able to do an even better job, create
more skill and am able to make money in the field I love.
So, whatever
you are doing to “make money” now I want to challenge yourself to make a small
shift in perspective. If you are not happy with your present situation what
would make you happy? What is your dream job? Start to imagine it, because if
you don’t know what it is, you cannot create it. Next, what can you do in your
present situation to make it more fun? There is always something!
Be
youthful in your approach
Connection is the key
Remember! anything is possible
I hope this
brings more fun into your life!
Nancy
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